Here is a family, that while a little different from our, echoes some of the same ideas and values we do. While our kids are still in the growing stage, they are looking at the adults in front of them and seeing how their parenting worked out. It is a Good Read.
http://qz.com/165716/how-i-made-sure-all-12-of-my-kids-could-pay-for-college-themselves/